最优婚姻策略：夫妻如何发展成功的互动模式

Abstract The study of marriage dynamics and of strategies to reduce the likelihood of divorce has been an important research area for many years. Gottman's (Gottman. 1993 J. Consult. Clin. Psychol. 61, 6–15. (doi:10.1037/0022-006X.61.1.6)) research on successful marriages revealed three matched interaction styles: conflict-avoiding, validating and volatile. There has, however, been little progress in explaining how couples develop these styles of interaction and why failure to do so leads to failed marriages. In this paper, we show that these interaction styles arise as solutions to an optimal